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梁繼璋 (香港電台副節目總監) 寫給兒子的信 Michael Leung (HKTVB Programme Deputy Director) A Letter to My Son

以下,便是你在人生中要好好記住的事: 

(一)對你不好的人,你不要太介懷,在你一生中,沒有人
有義務要對你好,除了我和你媽媽。至於那些對你好的人,你除了要珍惜、感恩外,也請多防備一點,因為,每個人做每件事,總有一個原因,他對你好,未必真的是因為喜歡你,請你必須搞清楚,而不必太快將對方看作真朋友。 

(二)沒有人是不可代替,沒有東西是必須擁有。看透了這
一點,將來你身邊的人不再要你,或許失去了世間上最愛的一切時,也應該明白,這並不是甚麼大不了的事。 

(三)生命是短暫的,今日你還在浪費著生命,明日會發覺
生命已遠離你了。因此,愈早珍惜生命,你享受生命的日子也愈多,與其盼望長壽,倒不如早點適當的享受。 

(四)世界上並沒有最愛這回事,愛情只是一種霎時的感覺
,而這感覺絕對會隨時日、心境而改變。如果你的所謂最愛離開你,請耐心地等候一下,讓時日慢慢沖洗,讓心靈慢慢沉澱,你的苦就會慢慢淡化。不要過分憧憬愛情的美,不要過分誇大失戀的悲。 

(五)雖然,很多有成就的人士都有受過很多教育,但並不
等於用功讀書,就一定可以成功。你學到的知識,就是你擁有的武器。人,可以白手興家,但不可以手無寸鐵,緊記! 

(六)我不會要求你供養我下半輩子,同樣地我也不會供養
你的下半輩子,當你長大到可以獨立的時候,我的責任已經完結。以後,你要坐巴士還是Benz,吃魚翅還是粉絲,都要自己負責。 

(七)你可以要求自己守信,但不能要求別人守信,你可以
要求自己對人好,但不能期待人家對你好。你怎樣對人,並不代表人家就會怎樣對你,如果看不透這一點,你只會徒添不必要的煩惱。 

(八)我買了十多二十年六合彩,還是一窮二白,連三獎也
沒有中,這證明人要發達,還是要努力工作才可以,世界上並沒有免費午餐。 

(九)親人只有一次的緣份,無論這輩子我和你會相處多久
,也請好好珍惜共聚的時光,下輩子,無論愛與不愛,都不會再見。 

你的爸爸 
梁繼璋

My Son:

Write you this memo based on the following three principles:
1) Life is unpredictable, everyone doesn't know how long could they live in this world, something is better to say earlier.
2) I am your father, if I don't tell you, no one will tell you.
3) I put a lot of my poor experiences inside this memo, because I want you to walk through smoothly in your life.

The following, are the issues that you must remember deeply and always keep them in your mind:

1) Do not mind who treat you bad, because they have no right to treat you good, exept your mother and I. For the persons who treat you good, you must be either jealous of them and thanksgiving them, you also need to be careful of them. Because everyone has his own purpose on every thing he did, he treats you good, may not really like you. So you must clarify clearly before you treat him as a real best friend.

2) No one is un-replaceble, nothing must possesses. While you understood this truth, you will not treat it seriously if someone left you or something you lost afterwards.

3) Life is a short period, while today you are still wasting your life, tomorrow time you will find that the life was left you far away. So, cherish your life as earlier as you can, so that you can enjoy your life time as long as you could. Earlier enjoying your life rather than just hope a longer life.

4) In this world, no truth of love. Love is only a short period of feeling, and this feeling will change following the times and mental state. If your lover left you, please wait patiently for the next, let the time help you to clean up, let your soul return slowly, then your suffering will be weaken by and by. Don't excessively think that the love is too beautiful, and don't excessively exaggerate that the loose of love is too sorrow. 

5) Even though, a lot of successful peoples accept a great many educations, but it doesn't mean you may success after studied hard. Those knowledges that you received are your weapon. Human being, can goes from rags to riches, but s/he cannot completely unarmed. Remember this!

6) I will not request you to support my elder life, the same, I will not support your elder life as well. Once you was growth up and to be indepent, my responsibility was finished. So for the future of your life, whether travels by bus or drives a benz, eats shark's fin or thin bean, all depend on your own responsibility.

7) You may request yourself to be true to one's promises, but can't request the others do the same as you; you may request yourself to treat good with the others, but you can't request the others do the same as you. No matter how you treat the others, it doesn't mean the others will return you the same. If you can't understand this truth, you will bring along yourself a lot of troubles.

8) I buy Mark Six lottery for 20 years, but I'm still very poor and didn't even get a consolation prize. This demonstrates that if a person wants to be rich, he still needs to be work hard. This world doesn't have free lunch.

9) Parents have only once that the fate brings us together, whatever how long will I stay with you, please and please cherish our time while together. We will not meet in our next turn of life, whatever we love each other or not and how much do we love each other. 

Your father,
Michael Leung


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